Hear hear! Rule of fun applies to every aspect of the game.Pick whatever class and race looks like fun to you.
Seriously, don't mind us grumpy old veterans, just make whatever you want. Don't get too attached to your first toon, and make peace with the idea that you WILL make mistakes.
You won't have great gear, any extra points to spend on utility stuff, and that's okay. Find a difficulty setting that's enjoyable, bring a healer hireling, and start exploring. Join public groups whenever you have a chance, and whenever they're nice people, ask for advice, help and maybe a guild membership.
Oh and browse through Strimtom's guides for newbies on Youtube. They're great.
Thing about all of the above is: your first life and first character is just to learn the basics and figure stuff out. Don't overthink it and don't feel pressured to learn everything all at once.
Comparison is the killer of joy.
Rule of fun applies to every aspect of the game.
Also - before I knew that Shuri leveling was terrible, I leveled a shuri thrower... and I still enjoyed myself