After reading this, at first I thought, 'he has a point', which morphed into 'how incredibly selfish.'
DDO is a business. Yes, it's a game we enjoy, but, it's a business. It makes business sense to DDO to consolidate resources in Vegas. They have enough Europe/West Asia business to justify a EU server, so they established one. How about Australia? The Far East? Alaska? Hawaii? What about them? Not enough for their own server. The new servers at a major IT hub, those folks might see a slight improvement though.
Choices have to be made, DDO made them. Some people won, others lost. If you feel like you're losing something, you have a hard decision to make.
(disclaimer: Being in Alaska, and seeing 200-400+ ping regularly, I like the game enough that I adapted. Others can too. It's just a choice.)