No it's really not. I'll refrain from responding in kind to call you a liar or an idiot. Tempting though that may be there is no need for it, nor would it be accurate. But you do you if it makes you think your argument will be enhanced by insults.
Bottom line is, objectively we're winning nothing here, and "subjective winning" is purely in your head and a pleasant form of delusion. It may make you feel better and happy which is fine, but it's actually quite meaningless otherwise.

I won a game of football is easy to define. How did you win? We scored more goals than the opposition. Easy.
Any other answer is ridiculous - Oh but we had more corners, for example. Fine. But the score was 1-1. Nobody actually won that game.
I won DDO. How did you win? Erm well in my head I define it as... <Insert answer here>
When actually the score here is always 0-0.
