I'm also interested in a Monk; what do you recommend?
Greetings, Mr. Thraxus!
My DDO character building skills are rather poor and I now play entirely solo. I recommend you ask that question in the Monk forum.
Some things to consider:
Do you have a certain race in mind? Some races have inherent traits that work very well with monk characters.
Do you have a certain weapon in mind? Some weapons require very specific things to function while centered. Some do not work at all.
Would you prefer a single or multiple class character? The latter is more complicated to build but usually more powerful. Mistakes are expensive to correct.
Do you want to play solo, run in groups, run in high reaper groups, raid, or run in high reaper raids with this character? Building a very powerful character requires very specific builds, very specific equipment, significantly more effort, probably more money, and definitely the right acquaintances. Solo play puts different stresses on a character but is far easier to accommodate. For example, how do you feel about traps? Do you like to explore?
Do you want to run from 1 to 20, from 20 to 30, from 15 to 30, or stay at 34 with this character? This question combines with the previous one. In other words, are you wanting to make go rounds with this character, collecting past life feats, or do you want to run level 34 stuff? They are very different requirements. Another possible answer is, I want to run from 1/15/20 to 34, play at 34 for a while, then reset. Many people play that way.
Do you have access to all of the add on enhancement trees like Falconry? If not, what trees do you have?
Does this character have any ability score tomes? If so, which ones. This is very important when trying to achieve some multiple class combinations.
At this point, you may be saying to yourself, "Good grief! I just want to play a stupid monk!" If so, we are cut from the same cloth. On the other hand, you may be a best of the best sort for whom all of the questions above will matter.
One problem with DDO is that there is so much build diversity, so many different ways to play, so many equipment combinations, finding the answer to any question is like pulling teeth. The worst is when you ask a question and get answers that are completely at odds with the way you want to play. I am trying not to do that to you. My hope is that the questions above will help you communicate with the people who are good at designing characters.