My opinion is I'm not gonna look at how a character looks to set my expectations of what kind of performance they will have. Just like in real life, just cause someone dresses like a gangster, a cholo, military personel, cop etc doesn't mean I should expect them to pull a weapon on me. I will watch their actions and form my opinions of that person accordingly.
If someone wants to make they're character look like a flaming skull, so be it. A fluffy floof floof, right on, a girl in skimpy outfits when your a guy in real life - whatever floats your boat mate. Dress how you want in the game. Do I think some things look cooler than others, yes. Do I think some appearances fit certain builds more, sure. But not everyone one dressed in soft pink polkadots and bunny ears is not gonna not punch you in the face.
On the real of it though patron coffers is just a different avenue for the company to make money. I can't be upset with them for that. It's not pay to win, it's pay to support a game I enjoy while getting something that I think looks cool. People are allowed to where what they want and think something looks cool just like you're allowed to think it looks dumb.