TedSandyman
Well-known member
I have to agree 100% with this.It really amazes me how people find new ways to complain about this game, when the problem is the players themselves.
The game mechanics of grouping are so incredibly convenient and easy in DDO (almost) anybody can do it.
Nothing, and I mean literally nothing, stops anyone from grouping together.
The problem is usually that no one wants to wait to form a party BEFORE they start questing.... they run to the quest then post a LFM as they start hoping others may join. When people join later, say on the 2nd or 3rd part of a chain they almost never are willing to rerun the previous quest for others who missed them.
Ravenloft in particular is split into 3 parts by level, which makes it extremely convenient for grouping. You can also red door quests you may not have flagged for as others have said. I can't remember ever having much difficulty finding a group to run Ravenloft with, heroic or epic. If I join late I can usually find another group to finish up the chain/saga with. If you like questing with some one then add them to your friend list and keep in touch - you can quest together whenever you want if you stay within level range.
You CAN red door most quests. You CAN rerun quests to help people out. 90% of this game it is possible for you to group with anyone regardless of your flagging status. And for the other 10%, if you really want to group with someone, just rerun the quests.
I have rerun quests for others. I have been in groups where we rerun quests. Yesterday, I was in a group doing the Kings Forest series. One person joined late and missed Impossible Demands, but while we started the last quest, a couple of the members reran impossible demands with that person to catch up. They could have red doored it. But a few of the members knew this person and wanted to help them out.
The only "jerks" are the ones who wont do this. (I'm not calling anyone a jerk, note the quotes, I am simply responding to someone who called the devs jerks for building this system.) This thread is basically "Please change the game dramatically to make it a little bit easier for me because I don't want to take the time to show basic courtesy to help someone out."
Now let me be clear that I don't care one way or the other. You play how you want to play. If you don't want to take the time to help someone else out, fine. Most don't. Even I get annoyed sometimes when I am in a group in a long quest and then have to wait a VERY long time at the end when someone joins.
What bothers me is the whining and complaining and the attacking of the developers and vitriol I hear in these threads over something that, for 90% of the time, isn't a problem.